not to belabor the points DomWolf makes aboveI don't see how people expressing their opinion is bad. You can say it's altering Tinkerer's original vision, sure, but at the end of the day you're saying people being able to skip content they don't want is a bad thing. I think keeping it optional is the perfect solution and don't see why that should be changed. He can write his more extreme stuff and players who dislike it can just skip it.
Nobody is saying expressing opinions is bad, this thread is full of opinions and alternate ideas. But there is a huge difference between offering an opinion and forcing one. Too many times people spam the forums with hate speech trying to bully the Dev into tailoring the project to them, spouting statistics like homogenized crap is desirable. Creators work best when they are creating something they personally love, I believe it really shines through, just like I feel it's easy to spot the projects ruined when creators try to cater to kinks that they don't really understand.
BTW As far as I'm aware Tinkerer is happy to make kinks optional, the problem is how few people are willing to ask politely.